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There are several various aspects and factors why a person may be excited by the act of smoking. Usually it's by watching the act. The most predominant form of sexual fetish I've researched will be the male watching the female carry out the act of cigarette smoking.
Within the last several years I've noticed a steady improve in a particular type of sexual stimulation known as the smoking fetish.
The question I posed to myself was of a different nature. What does olfactory stimulation, or the sense of smell, as related to exhaled cigarette smoke, need to do with sexual excitement?
For thousands of years it has been known that the sense of smell can stimulate sexual response in human beings along with other animals.
Pheromones are chemical molecules secreted and fit particularly at olfactory receptor sites at locations within the nasal canal. These receptor sites, in turn, send signals to the brain. These signals usually trigger a sexual stimulatory response within the opposite sex, and attraction occurs.
Millions of dollars are spent producing perfumes, colognes, and other various fragrances within the try to trigger 1 human to attract another through the sense of smell. If the opposite sex likes the smell, an attraction can occur. This attraction, in turn, eventually leads to some type of sexual attraction. The long-term goal of the sexual attraction, of course, would be to influence that individual into some sexual encounter.
There has been scores of scientific studies researching the effects of pheromones and fragrances, that cause sexual attraction between humans.
There has been 1 scent, or smell, entirely overlooked by the scientific community.
I do not know if it's so a lot new, or just recently found. But there exists a smell that causes extremely powerful sexual responses. A minimum of in some people. Perhaps many individuals. This olfactory response, or smell, is merely the smell of exhaled cigarette smoke.
Do not laugh. I'm completely serious.
All you have to do is conduct a search on the web of smoke fetishes, and you will discover millions of internet websites associated to the subject of smoking and sexual excitement.
I wanted to know why, and why the smell of smoke is so sexually exciting to numerous, with the increasing political incorrectness associated with it.
The Smoking Fetish
There are many various aspects and factors why an individual can be excited by the act of smoking. Usually it's by watching the act.
Probably the most predominant type of sexual fetish I've researched will be the male watching the female perform the act of cigarette smoking.
Following researching this topic and becoming a bit confused as to why this fetish even exists, I've obtained info that has not just satisfied much of my curiosity about the topic, but has also given me factors as to why this fetish exists.
The male seems to expertise a sexual tension, or high, watching an attractive woman light up and bring the cigarette to her lips to draw the smoke in. The act of drawing, generally referred to as pumping, or double pumping the smoke is accompanied by hollowing of the cheeks. This really is followed by a long, drawn out, exhalation of smoke into the air via pursed lips.
Some of us are much more orally fixated than other people. It has been scientifically documented that people who smoke, moreover females who smoke, have higher oral fixations then people who do not smoke. I'm certainly not sexist, as I'm a woman myself. But there does seem to exist in the literature an association between oral fixation and smoking.
Although I've gone over many of the visual stimulation affects that smoking has on individuals, which may be very stimulating to someone, I'm not focusing on this topic right now in this article.
The focus of this post is much more particularly on the actual olfactory response, or smell, in the exhaled smoke itself. To begin with, I should state there's no issue finding many individuals who can't stand the smell of smoke in any form or fashion. With that stated and out in the way, let's press forward.
Why does the smoking fetish exist?
Does the smell in the exhaled smoke play a component in the fetish?
There's certainly a visual sexual attractiveness to the act of smoking. Watching a women bring a slim, lengthy, white cigarette to her red lips, make get in touch with with her lips, followed by performing the oral act of the cheek hollowing drawing in, inhaling and exhaling the smoke into the air can definitely trigger sexual tension in some men.
But the focus of this post, once more, is on the actual smell in the exhaled smoke itself.
When a woman exhales smoke into the air, having a sexual connotation, there is something sexually stimulating about watching the smoke roll via the air and slowly dissipate. Now let us focus on the actual smell of the cloud of exhaled smoke.
For one factor, there's certainly a distinction within the smell of exhaled smoke as compared to the smell of uninhaled smoke. You will find certain kinds of secondhand smoke. There's smoke that rises off the end of the cigarette. There is the smoke that's drawn in orally into the oral cavity and if not inhaled into the lungs, but blown out, is heavier and smells various than inhaled smoke. However, when the smoke is drawn in, and inhaled into the lungs and blown out into the air, it definitely has different properties and a various smell. The smell is different than any other smell in the cigarette.
I challenge anyone to have somebody light a cigarette somewhere, and smell the smoke that comes from one end, after which smell the smoke that's inhaled and blown into the air. They'll smell something completely different.
The smoke that's been inhaled, followed by a long plume exhalation into the air is really a a lot various smell. I must admit, it's a lighter, much more fragrant smell. Even as this exhaled smoke dissipates into the air one will notice the different smell. Many people describe the smell as not just better than the other smells of the cigarette, but really a good, pleasant smell. This perception of the smell of this kind of smoke is not only from smokers themselves, but from many nonsmokers also.
For example, I've had many people, even nonsmokers, clarify to me that they cannot stand the smell of smoke in the air. The residual smoke and also the smell of smoke on clothing, furniture, or within the room. Nevertheless, they've the different perception of freshly exhaled smoke, particularly from the opposite sex as perhaps when skilled in a public location such as a restaurant or bar.
Let me share story with you. One man came into my therapy session and explained that he had a smoking fetish. He didn't realize he had this fetish until recently. Nevertheless, he went on to explain that he's by no means smoked and he could not stand the smell of smoke. Nevertheless, he had a girlfriend who smokes. They had been in a restaurant 1 night and she lit up the cigarette and he was slightly offended at this act, but because he had a few drinks, he believed he was a lot much more relaxed about the entire factor.
Whilst watching his girlfriend's smoking he noticed that he became more thinking about the way she brought the cigarette to her lips, drew the smoke in and exhaled the smoke.
What truly shocked him was prior to he got up to use the restroom his girlfriend took a long drag of her cigarette and blew the smoke into an area away from him. As he walked to the restroom he ended up walking right via the cloud of her exhaled smoke. As he walked through this cloud he could not believe he experienced the strongest sexual stimulation and urges he's by no means felt in his life. Following this, he was very curious about the whole experience. So he asked his girlfriend to blow her plume of smoke toward him and eventually right in his face.
Wanting to experiment with this much more, when they arrived house, he asked her if she wouldn't mind if she blew much more smoke in his face. As she was smoking and she blew the plume of smoke into the air, the smoke slowly dissipated and made its way to his nose, he once more experienced sexual sensations.
He admitted he was half embarrassed by the whole factor, but nonetheless curious. He asked his girlfriend to blow the smoke toward him every time she would exhale. She gladly accommodated him. The man explained that he was excited at not only the smell but the way the smoke slowly made its method to his face either via plumes rolling via the air or slowly creating its way in waves toward him, like a lava lamp. As this exhaled smoke made its way to his nose, again, it stimulated him in a fashion he could not explain.
Needless to say, that night he went on to have the best sex that he ever had with his girlfriend. He explained he had probably the most intense orgasm he had ever experienced.
When I asked him what he thought caused all of this, he could not clarify. The only factor he could explain was that the smell was more feminine and reflected a peculiar appealing smell. He explained that the smell of her exhaled smoke was somehow a reflection of her own pleasure. He also explained some thing extremely fascinating to me. He went on to say that since the smoke was inside her appealing, feminine body, and exhaled it was somehow altered by her femininity and sexually thrilling.
Once more there's a certain sexual connotation to this. The man was referring to the smoke being inside of her, followed by becoming exhaled outside of her. This might be compared to the sexual act of becoming inside the woman, followed by a release and ultimately becoming outside of her.
I'm not exactly sure how lengthy this smoking fetish has been in existence. I'd suspect that it is been about a lengthy time. Nevertheless, many people are embarrassed by it for fear of being ridiculed.
With all the political incorrectness going on about smoking it certainly would be something that somebody would wish to suppress.
Nevertheless with all the smoking fetish internet sites, forums, and discussion groups, the smoking fetish can certainly no longer be denied as one of the powerful, and much more well-liked fetishes that exist. The internet has proved this.
In conclusion, although I could partially comprehend why a man could be excited about watching the woman smoke due to the oral visual effects, I wanted to locate out if there was actual stimulation from the smell in the exhaled smoke. Which, again, is certainly various than the smell of smoke not inhaled.
In my opinion there's a difference.
I've to admit that I enjoy smoking a Virginia Slim occasionally. I, myself, have smoked and tried it each ways. Taking a drag in the cigarette and blowing the smoke out each methods. After inhalation and following not being inhaled. Each myself, as well as my husband, agree that there is a difference. When I drew the same precise quantity of smoke in and inhaled, followed by an exhalation of a long plume of creamy smoke into the air, we both agree that the smell is very good. Even sensual. A smell we each like, very much.
I also should admit that my husband liked the smell although he could not explain why. By the way, the smell not only was enjoyed by both of us but excited my husband sexually. This in turn, excited me also. I've also, really witnessed males in bars walking, or dancing correct into the direct path of exhaled smoke blown by an appealing woman. They attempted to become discreet. But they ended up staying in the exhaled smoke cloud so long as they could with out becoming noticed.
A few of the ladies noticed this and had been amused by it. One noticed it and whispered some thing into her girlfriend's ear and repeated the act two additional times so they could each witness it. Her friend then did it herself to watch the man "discreetly" immerse himself in her exhaled smoke cloud. I've also noticed other women who had been uncomfortable following noticing men trying to smell their clouds, and moved to other locations. Not surprising. Some ladies are uncomfortable with this fetish, and do not wish to know about it. Others are either amused by it, enjoy it, and pleased to accommodate you by blowing smoke either in your face, or at least, toward you.
Still not convinced?
On an additional occasion, my husband and I went to a really exclusive restaurant for a special evening together. We had been dressed for the occasion. My husband wearing a suit and tie, and I was wearing a silky dress, with sheer overlay, and high heels. Extremely floaty. Becoming the analyst that I am, I noticed a few things.
One, most of the time as I drew on my cigarette and blew out the smoke, I noticed many male eyes watching.
Two, something extremely peculiar indeed. Whilst the waiter was bringing back our drinks, I positioned the cigarette in between my manicured fingernails away from the waiter, as to be polite, and blew my smoke out into the aisle way toward the floor. As my exhaled plume of smoke rolled toward the floor and pooled there, slowly dissipating, the waiter acted as if he didn't notice something. However, he really went out of his way to bend down and position his head correct in the midst of my exhaled smoke. He acted as if he was picking some thing up off the floor. Nevertheless, absolutely nothing was there. For some reason he knelt and bent down as to bath his face in the cloud of my fresh exhaled smoke.
He then walked away in a nervous-like fashion.
I don't know if it was the smell of my exhaled smoke mixed with the perfume I was wearing or what. But there was definitely some thing to it. My husband and I each noticed him performing this. I just smiled at my husband and the next time the waiter came back, I treated him to an additional fresh cloud higher up in the aisle-way for him to enjoy.
Once more, he took the bait. He kept his face in the cloud until it was totally gone. It was as if he was completely absorbing it.
Even now, when my husband and I go to the mall, we both can identify the smell of freshly exhaled smoke in the air. We smell it, and look around. Sure sufficient, there's a couple of ladies sitting on a bench conversing, enjoying a cigarette and cup of coffee. At this point, we are able to even tell the difference in between exhaled female smoke and male smoke, and whether or not it's a powerful unfiltered cigarette, or one of the much more feminine cigarettes.
Sounds crazy does not it? But it's absolutely true. In fact, as explained, I actually studied it over a 3 month period and documented my results. Confession, it has been 1 of my much more enjoyable analysis projects.
I should admit, when studying the leading of the line sexually appealing females available, you realize the ones ahead of their game, there is, and has been, evidence that taking a lengthy drag of a cigarette with red luscious lips, followed by blowing lengthy plumes of creamy smoke into the air definitely works in obtaining attention. All you need to do is watch any movie from the 1940's or 1950's to witness this. Maybe the smell of this exhaled smoke had also played a role within the attraction. Perhaps it has gone undocumented until now.
Perhaps I'll incorporate some of my therapy sessions to include blowing creamy plumes of smoke within the faces of clients who display sexual inhibitions. Perhaps they'll benefit from it. Then again, maybe I will.
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